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1/28/25

How can I support my child during co-parenting transitions?

Co-parenting transitions can be tough for both parents and children. These changes often bring about new routines and emotions, making it crucial for parents to provide the proper support. Your guidance can help your child adjust and feel more secure during these times. Here are five ways you can support your child during co-parenting transitions. 1. Communicate openly Talk to your child about the changes they are experiencing. Encourage them to share their feelings and...

1/16/25

Preserving co-parenting relationships through mediation

Divorce brings significant changes; parents must work together for their children’s well-being. Many parents now choose mediation instead of going to court. This path helps them stay calm and focused while making important decisions about their children’s future. What is divorce mediation? A mediator steps in as a fair guide to help parents make choices about custody and parenting plans. Unlike court battles, mediation lets parents stay in control of these vital choices. Parents learn...

1/7/25

How can I avoid financial conflicts with my co-parent?

In the aftermath of divorce proceedings, many set out on a journey to rebuild their lives. But for parents, it marks the beginning of a lifelong co-parenting relationship. Raising a child is challenging enough without the emotional difficulties of divorce. Personal grievances left over from the divorce, coupled with differing financial situations or priorities, can transform simple money matters into heated disputes. To ensure your child’s needs remain at the forefront of financial decisions, you...

1/7/25

Your January divorce can be collaborative

Suppose you’re contemplating a January, you’re not alone; January is often referred to as Divorce Month. The first month of the year sees a significant uptick in couples filing for divorce. For many, the decision comes after months of deliberation over the previous year. Since the start of a new year symbolizes fresh beginnings, many couples file for divorce in January. While the idea of divorce might seem daunting, Why January? If you’re like...

12/18/24

What happens to the family pets during a divorce?

People preparing for divorce often have questions about what may happen during and after the divorce process. Parents may worry about custody of their children, while business owners may worry about the equity accrued in their companies or professional practices. For those with pets, concerns about the future of their animals are often a top consideration prior to divorce. Pet owners love their furry companions and may worry about what may happen to their pets...

12/17/24

Setting boundaries with your ex-spouse in Pennsylvania

Life after divorce can be challenging, especially when keeping an amicable relationship with your ex-spouse. Setting clear boundaries is one of the best ways to ensure a smooth transition. In Pennsylvania, setting these boundaries can help reduce arguments and create a more stable environment for everyone involved. Why boundaries matter Promote Stability: Protect your well-being: Help co-parenting: Steps to set boundaries To set reasonable boundaries with your ex-spouse, follow these steps: Communicate clearly: Be firm:...

12/4/24

How can collaborative divorce benefit your children?

Divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. However, collaborative divorce might offer a more positive approach to benefit your children overall. This process focuses on cooperation rather than confrontation. It could potentially ease the transition for everyone involved. The impact on emotional well-being Collaborative divorce Significantly reduce stress and conflict Allow you to model healthy conflict resolution skills for your children Encourages parents to put their children’s needs first. Help minimize the emotional...

11/6/24

How do you tell your spouse you want a divorce?

Deciding to end a marriage is never easy. Once you have made this difficult decision, the next challenge is communicating it to your spouse. This conversation may be emotional and complicated, but approaching it respectfully and clearly can make a significant difference. Below are tips you may consider to navigate this challenging discussion. Preparing for the conversation Before Reflect on your decision It is essential to ensure you are sure about wanting a divorce...

10/24/24

Balancing expert advice and parental instincts in divorce

As a parent going through a divorce, you want to ensure that your child’s best interests are at the forefront of your every decision. This complex and emotional transition often demands expert guidance to safeguard your child’s well-being. Professionals like psychologists, child development specialists, and mediators provide valuable expertise. However, this flood of opinions and advice can quickly become overwhelming. Expert insights can offer a wealth of knowledge, enabling you to make well-informed choices that...

10/19/24

How you can make your divorce less stressful for your kids

Even when a divorce is amicable, it can still be a challenging experience for children because it tends to upend their “everyday.” Most children grapple with confusion, fear and sadness as their sense of family stability shifts. Thankfully, as a parent, there are steps you can take to Communicate openly and honestly Naturally, when you’re divorcing, you instinctively want to protect your children from experiencing the pain of your separation. It can be tempting...