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5/1/23

Many Pennsylvania couples considering divorce could benefit from mediation as part of the process. Mediation is a process that helps couples resolve their disagreements independently. This can help them avoid going to family court and having a judge determine what should happen with their children or their shared property. Even though mediation may mean attending an additional meeting and paying for another outside professional to assist their family, successful mediation can actually speed up the...

4/28/23

When is a parent unfit for custody?

It is true that no parent is perfect, but some of them can be destructive to their child. It is normal for those going through divorce to distrust an ex-spouse regarding childcare. However, it is important to remember that the judge will make their decision based on the child’s best interest. What is an unfit parent? When a parent cannot provide for their child or places them in danger, the court may determine that the...

4/25/23

4 tips for a more efficient divorce mediation

How soon you can finalize your separation through traditional divorce often depends on the court’s calendars. A full court schedule might slow down your divorce. In comparison, divorce mediation depends on how much time you and your spouse can free up to negotiate asset division, child custody, and the other aspects of your separation. Because of this, it is possible to finalize everything within a shorter time through mediation than through traditional divorce. If you...

3/28/23

How can you protect your interests in a collaborative divorce?

Collaborative divorce has several benefits over a traditional divorce. It is a faster way of settling a divorce that gives you more control over your family affairs while protecting your privacy. If you have chosen to take this 1. Do not fly blind It helps to have the necessary information, especially on matters to do with finances. Gather the relevant financial documents and have an inventory of all marital assets. That way, you will...

3/23/23

3 self-care tips to help you be a good parent during divorce

Divorce is difficult for the entire family. Any parent’s first concern is how to protect and provide for their kids. Unfortunately, in doing so, you may disregard your own needs. Even though it might seem like you don’t have the time or energy, prioritizing your needs and practicing self-care can help you be there for the kids more effectively. Be sure to make some time for yourself You might feel that you’re busier than ever...

3/6/23

Tips for an easier and successful collaborative divorce

A collaborative divorce is a great way of dealing with things compared to a traditional litigated divorce. You will save both time and money with this less-adversarial approach to settling your divorce. While collaborative divorce 1. Communicate openly You must communicate openly and honestly to make the most of a collaborative divorce. Do not hesitate to express your concerns, feelings and priorities during the process. Remember, the end goal is a mutual consensus; you...

3/4/23

Tips to keep legal costs down during divorce

The average divorce or marital dissolution costs thousands of dollars. You and your spouse may have to pay for your separate legal representation and for court costs. You will also incur certain losses as you divide your property with one another. While you are undergoing major changes in your personal relationships, you will likely want to preserve your financial stability as much as you possibly can. Thankfully, there are a few tips you can follow...

2/23/23

Tips for effective co-parenting communication

Going through a divorce when you have children is a very complex undertaking. You have to think about all the normal divorce topics, such as property division. You also need to consider things related to the children. Some parents decide that they’re going to put their own feelings aside to raise the children in an environment with minimal stress. One option for this is Always focus on the kids Always keep the focus of discussions...

2/5/23

5 ways to help your kids through divorce

You and your spouse may not agree on much anymore, but one thing you do agree on is that your children are very much a priority – especially as you approach a divorce. While there’s no way to entirely eliminate the stress of your divorce from your children’s lives, you can take steps to mitigate the fallout. 1. Keep the focus on your children’s needs As you make the transition from spouse to co-parents, it’s...

1/25/23

What is the difference between mediation and collaborative divorce?

Divorce in Pennsylvania can be an extremely tough process for all involved. The more a divorce drags on, the worse it tends to get for a family and their loved ones. Avoiding in-court divorce proceedings can help relieve some of this pressure and negativity. If both spouses want to find a middle ground and avoid litigation, there are two choices: mediation and collaborative divorce. The benefits of mediation The first alternative you can choose is...