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7/13/21

While resolving a divorce may have taken you a considerable amount of time and effort, that is not the end of the work you need to put in for this new way of living. As a recently divorced parent, you may have already noticed difficulties in co-parenting with your ex-spouse. There are Put your feelings about your ex-spouse aside It is natural for a recent divorcee to have feelings of hurt or anger toward their...

6/29/21

3 reasons divorce mediation could fail

Mediation offers you an alternative way to settle your divorce. It comes with several advantages compared to the more traditional route of litigation. When you use mediation, you and your spouse get to Failing to prepare for mediation will reduce the chance of success Mediation does not always work out. Here are three reasons divorce mediation could fail: You lack the right attitude: Mediation requires you both to enter the room in a spirit...

6/24/21

Keeping your costs down in a divorce

Divorce is a notoriously expensive process. The strain on your finances can add another burden to an already stressful situation. From legal fees to finding new living accommodations to dividing marital assets, you stand to lose a lot of financial security. Fortunately, there are a few strategies that you can use to keep your expenses down during your divorce. Cost-saving tactics for divorce Keep in mind, every divorce is unique. The tactics that work for...

5/11/21

When should you call a collaborative divorce attorney?

Scorched-earth divorce battles make for compelling television. Despite what Hollywood may have you believe, though, it is possible to end your marriage without going through a knock-down, drag-out fight. With collaborative divorce, you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse each have an attorney to protect your interests. Rather than fighting in open court, however, you work with your husband or wife to find 1. You do not hate your spouse Even though your marriage is no...

4/19/21

4 options for securing health insurance immediately after divorce

Even if you are healthy and active, having health insurance is critical. After all, a catastrophic injury or sudden illness may require hospitalization, expensive procedures or costly medications. If you do not have sufficient health coverage, an unexpected event may leave you thousands of dollars or more in debt. If you are on your spouse’s plan, you may wonder what happens to your coverage after your divorce. While you can likely address health insurance during...

3/7/21

Can a collaborative divorce give both parties more closure?

The last thing you may hope to achieve in a divorce is closure, but it is possible if you and your partner are on the same page about the process. Taking the Here are two ways that collaborative divorce can help you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse gain closure so you can move on with your lives. Preserve critical resources What happens during the divorce process has an immediate and significant impact on your post-divorce...

1/15/21

Self-care is vital during divorce

It happened; either you or your soon to be ex have chosen to move on from your marriage. It’s hard, and there is no getting around that, but you should take care of yourself. We’ve written many times about the necessity of staying cool, calm and collected during a divorce. A simpler, mediated divorce is It’s about settling into a new mindset Your marriage, even though it didn’t work out, was a partnership you...

1/15/21

Consider a collaborative divorce when splitting after 50

If you are over the age of 50 and considering divorce from your spouse, you are not alone. The divorce rate is rising among seniors more than any other group, so much so that the term “gray divorce” is in widespread use to describe the trend. Divorce is not easy at any age, and in some respects it can be harder for seniors. However, there are options available that can make it easier. One of...

12/31/20

How children benefit when their parents share custody

Divorce means major changes to your lifestyle. If you divorce and have minor children, it may, too, mean you must adjust to a new custody arrangement. Spending less time with your child may not be your preference. However, you may find the transition to be easier if you consider how a joint-custody arrangement may benefit your son or daughter in the long run. According to Science Daily, children who spend time living in the homes...

10/30/20

Mediation is easier on children than high-conflict divorce

Studies show that high-conflict divorce has an adverse effect on children in a variety of ways. As compared with litigation, divorce mediation has steadily increased in popularity, especially for couples who find their children handle the process with reduced levels of anxiety and stress. Adversarial issues When high-conflict issues already exist between the parties in a divorce action, an adversarial court proceeding only exacerbates the problems. Studies show that children display less depression and anxiety...