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1/29/22

Why might your child feel responsible for your divorce?

Divorce is a tough concept for a young child to grasp. Even if it is explained to them in gentle, age-suitable language, they may not understand. In addition to feeling sad, bewildered and unsettled, they might wrongly think Maybe they assume that they were naughty, and you and your spouse got fed up and called it quits. Perhaps they want to help resolve the problems the two of you had, believing that they can intervene...

1/20/22

3 mistakes to avoid during property division

When a couple decides that divorce is the best option for their future, they must proceed through a complex process punctuated by numerous compromises and negotiations. From child custody and a parenting time schedule to financial support and property division, the divorcing couple must navigate many discussions before embarking on their exciting new futures. For many couples, the division of property and debt responsibility represents a significant barrier in the divorce process. Property division can...

1/16/22

Sometimes, children are better off with their grandparents

Children need a strong and stable bond with the person who takes care of them. Usually, that will be one of their parents. However, sometimes parents have a hard time giving their children the structure and support they need. There are situations where it will be better for the children to live with other family members. For some children, it will be much healthier, safer or more stable to stay with a grandparent instead of...

1/13/22

Signs your spouse is preparing for divorce

Many people who receive divorce papers are surprised by the news that their spouse is unhappy in their marriage. Knowing these signs and being able to spot them ahead of time allows you the opportunity to either prepare for divorce or act to repair your marriage. To help you act ahead of time, here are five common signs of coming divorce: They are spending less time with you When your partner is preparing to separate...

1/6/22

How are investments divided in a Pennsylvania divorce?

If your marriage ends, you need to know how the court might divide your financial assets to protect your investments and keep yourself from financial turmoil. Here’s how the Pennsylvania court divides investments and other assets in a divorce. Marital versus separate property Before the court divides anything during your On the other hand, any stock or investment made while married is marital property and subject to division. Also, if you bought stocks before...

12/30/21

Is it really beneficial to have an amicable divorce?

Sadly, not every marriage is built to last the distance. Obtaining a divorce can be a difficult decision that significantly impacts the lives of both spouses. Furthermore, when children are involved, parents have to carefully consider the well-being of their offspring. Many divorces take on an adversarial form, with both parties engaging in a winner takes all scenario. However, in reality, there are no winners in a high-conflict divorce. Lengthy disputes only result in heightened...

12/27/21

Getting over ‘divorce grief’

Whether you initiated your divorce or your spouse did, it is natural to feel emotional about the end of your marriage. The loss of such an intimate relationship, even one that was flawed beyond fixing, can feel like a kind of death. Just like we grieve the death of a loved one (even if our relationship with that person was not the best), we might go through a similar experience over getting divorced. Five tips...

12/18/21

3 New Year’s resolutions for better co-parenting

Sharing custody isn’t easy, even if you have the best of intentions. You and your ex may have had some rough patches this last year, especially if your divorce is still fresh. With a new year on the horizon, now is the perfect time to set some goals for better co-parenting in the future. What are some resolutions that could make your family life a little bit better? Commit to daily updates or communication You...

12/17/21

How can my divorce affect my children?

In a perfect world, we fall in love, have children and live happily ever after. While many spouses maintain long and loving relationships and divorce rates have fallen over the past decade, divorce remains a constant in our society. If you have children, you want the process to be as painless as possible for their (and your) sake. Research shows parents who take a graceful approach to divorce may greatly reduce the negative impacts on...

12/16/21

Social media mistakes are costly in divorce

The ubiquitous presence and use of social media have brought many benefits to people wanting to stay connected with friends, relatives and acquaintances. Sometimes, people may overshare mundane and irrelevant things, too. But that is expected. But what happens when a rift surfaces in a ere? How do you deal with this on social media? Of course, there is discontent with a disconnect, especially when a couple divorces. In such cases, you must observe civil...