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2/28/22

How to approach telling your kids about your divorce

Children who have grown up with both parents living in the same home often feel a major sense of security. That security is going to be shaken if their Typically, it’s best if both parents can be there to talk to the children. This helps the kids to see that their parents are still willing to get along to parent as a team. It also ensures that both parents know what the child is being...

2/12/22

Collaborative divorce can make things easier for your children

Divorcing when you share children is more complicated than without them. You have far more issues to address, such as how you will parent and when and how you will financially support the children after the divorce. Often, resolving those concerns can lead to conflict and litigation. However, conflict between parents is a big part of why divorce is so What is collaborative divorce? When people think of divorce, they usually think of acrimonious...

2/11/22

Helping your children adapt to life after divorce

Going through a divorce can be a challenging experience for you and your children. It can be challenging for adults and children alike to recognize that the divorce is not their fault so they can move forward from the experience. While you are processing your divorce, you also need to help your children understand what happened and how they can find a new sense of normal as you build a new life. Here are a...

2/4/22

The basics of divorce mediation in Pennsylvania

Are you considering a divorce? If so, you may be wondering about the best way to go about it. Many couples choose to mediate their divorces, which offers several important benefits. What is divorce mediation? Divorce mediation is a process in which a couple works with a mediator to negotiate the terms of their Why choose mediation? One of the biggest benefits of mediation is that it allows couples to maintain control over their...

2/4/22

When is it time to take another look at your parenting plan?

It can be challenging to try to parent your child after a divorce. You and your ex both want what is best for your child, but it can be difficult to agree on what best means in every circumstance. As you and your family learn to adapt to life after divorce, you may find that your needs change. As your family’s needs change, you may also need to adjust your parenting plan to be a...

1/29/22

Why might your child feel responsible for your divorce?

Divorce is a tough concept for a young child to grasp. Even if it is explained to them in gentle, age-suitable language, they may not understand. In addition to feeling sad, bewildered and unsettled, they might wrongly think Maybe they assume that they were naughty, and you and your spouse got fed up and called it quits. Perhaps they want to help resolve the problems the two of you had, believing that they can intervene...

1/20/22

3 mistakes to avoid during property division

When a couple decides that divorce is the best option for their future, they must proceed through a complex process punctuated by numerous compromises and negotiations. From child custody and a parenting time schedule to financial support and property division, the divorcing couple must navigate many discussions before embarking on their exciting new futures. For many couples, the division of property and debt responsibility represents a significant barrier in the divorce process. Property division can...

1/16/22

Sometimes, children are better off with their grandparents

Children need a strong and stable bond with the person who takes care of them. Usually, that will be one of their parents. However, sometimes parents have a hard time giving their children the structure and support they need. There are situations where it will be better for the children to live with other family members. For some children, it will be much healthier, safer or more stable to stay with a grandparent instead of...

1/13/22

Signs your spouse is preparing for divorce

Many people who receive divorce papers are surprised by the news that their spouse is unhappy in their marriage. Knowing these signs and being able to spot them ahead of time allows you the opportunity to either prepare for divorce or act to repair your marriage. To help you act ahead of time, here are five common signs of coming divorce: They are spending less time with you When your partner is preparing to separate...

1/6/22

How are investments divided in a Pennsylvania divorce?

If your marriage ends, you need to know how the court might divide your financial assets to protect your investments and keep yourself from financial turmoil. Here’s how the Pennsylvania court divides investments and other assets in a divorce. Marital versus separate property Before the court divides anything during your On the other hand, any stock or investment made while married is marital property and subject to division. Also, if you bought stocks before...