Blog: Divorce

11/4/21

Preparing for the Holiday Season Amid Divorce

The holiday season is known for peace, joy and togetherness. When you’re entering your first holiday season amid a divorce though, it can be hard to keep those themes at the forefront of your mind. To help you be as prepared as possible, here are some tips to follow during this time of year. Have a custody arrangement One of the many Mix up traditions While family traditions are great, so is mixing things...

11/1/21

What will happen to my pets after my divorce?

Most of us love our pets as if they were our children. So, in a divorce, the thought splitting up from them can feel heart-wrenching. In today’s divorces, may spouses have to confront the possibility of shared pet custody – and the answers do not come easily. How does Pennsylvania handle pet custody? Pennsylvania courts do not grant pets the same rights as children. Instead, the court considers them personal property. With that said, many...

10/13/21

How to break the news about your divorce to family and friends

The decision to get divorced is hard. You may already feel overwhelmed with your own emotions to deal with your friends’ and family members’ inquiries. However, you will have to tell them about it eventually. It may be nerve-wracking to think about how they will react to the news, but you can take control of the situation by knowing what and how to say it. That way, you can ensure you’ll communicate what you want...

9/29/21

4 mistakes to avoid in divorce

The anger came to a boiling point when served with divorce papers. You knew your marriage was on a precipice but did not expect your spouse to pursue the dissolution of it. You want revenge, but that is not a good idea. Instead, take three deep breaths and continue to do so anytime divorce-related anger and frustration surface. You must accept what is going to happen. At the same time, you must avoid making costly...

9/22/21

Gray divorce and the impact on adult children

The end of a marriage has many casualties beyond the husband and wife who have made a life-altering decision. Children are usually the most impacted by their mother and father splitting up. With the “Gray Divorce” trend where parents 50 years or older divorce, older offspring are forced to deal with the emotional aftermath. Perhaps the last thing that anyone expects as they reach middle-age is their The anxiety felt by adult children The...

9/7/21

Why your dreams might have to wait as a divorcing parent

Marriage limits your freedom of choice. You may put off things you always wanted to respect your partner’s wishes or needs. Divorce may seem the ideal time to implement the changes you dream of. However, this is not so easy if you have kids. You need to consider how your choices will affect your child’s relationship with you, your co-parent and others. Kids need their parents more than ever after a divorce Your separation and...

8/27/21

How to help your child adjust after divorce

The decision to get divorced is hard, especially when there are kids in the picture. As adults, we know that sometimes divorce is necessary. However, kids can have a hard time understanding and accepting it. You don’t want your kids to suffer from your divorce, and to prevent that, there are some steps you can take. Don’t make drastic changes A divorce implies a change in your child’s life. However, not everything has to change...

8/25/21

The growth of gray divorces

Marital dissolutions involving couples over 50 were once the exception and not the rule. Over time, the dynamic has changed. People are living longer and are more willing to start the next chapters of their lives at a more advanced age. What has become well known as “Gray Divorce” has doubled over the past thirty-plus years. Predictions by researchers could see the divorce demographic triple by the next decade. Fifty-something divorces are increasing at a...

8/5/21

Tips to promote a collaborative divorce

While the idea of getting a divorce often fills a spouse with a sense of dread, there are ways if improving the situation. A collaborative divorce allows couples to work together and end things on their own terms. Considering Agreeing to collaborate through a divorce is not enough to ensure things will go well, however. To help promote the efficiency and speed of the process, here are five tips you should follow: Set your feelings...

7/29/21

Just Divorced: What’s Next?

After your divorce is final, the future can seem a little overwhelming. With so many possibilities, it can be easy to get lost and not know where to start in pursuit of your new normal. To figure out what’s next, here are some tips to help you find your “normal” after your divorce. Focus on your children No matter what issues you and your former spouse had in your marriage or your divorce proceedings, it...