Blog: Divorce

11/25/23

The phrase “conscious uncoupling” hit the news way back in 2014 – and it’s gradually started to change the way that a lot of couples approach divorce. In short, conscious uncoupling is all about reframing your marriage and divorce as a journey and a growth process and realizing that it’s okay that things didn’t work out. In the process, it’s often possible for couples to find closure together and transition from partners to friends –...

10/20/23

5 ways to prioritize your child’s needs during a divorce

Divorce affects almost every aspect of your life, making it easy to lose sight of what’s important. Amid the chaos, there is one crucial part that you must prioritize: your children. Like you, they may also be grappling with grief, sadness and confusion. As a parent, your support during such a difficult time can shape how your children adapt and grow from the experience. The effects of divorce on children They may not always show...

10/17/23

The basic estate documents you’ll need after divorce

As a busy adult, it’s surprisingly easy to overlook important matters, especially when dealing with divorce’s emotional and logistical challenges. However, safeguarding your financial security and protecting your loved ones should be top priorities. That’s where primary estate documents come into play. Do you know the essential estate documents you should have in place, especially if you’ve recently divorced? The basic estate documents Following a divorce Medical and Financial Powers of Attorney allow you to...

9/5/23

Are you about to tell your children about your divorce?

Breaking the news of your divorce to your children can be a difficult and emotional conversation. As you navigate this delicate situation, it’s important to approach it with sensitivity and care to minimize the impact on their well-being. At this moment, your children may already have some idea that you’re getting a divorce, which can make this conversation even more challenging. However, it would be best to have Plan and talk to them together Starting...

8/7/23

5 tips for families experiencing high-conflict divorces

The inherent nature of divorce is tearing apart what you hoped was an enduring bond. This breakage only means that you and your ex-spouse cannot be completely immune from some degree of disagreement. But in some cases, conflicts reach extremely antagonistic levels. If not managed properly, it may have a detrimental impact on your family’s well-being. How to reduce conflicts Per Pennsylvania’s collaborative laws, you have the option to sign a participation agreement to ...

5/10/23

How do I prepare to talk to my spouse about divorce?

It is never easy to break up with someone you promised to love, especially if you legally vowed to love and cherish them forever. When you finally decide to bring up divorce, you should do so in a way that will increase the chances for collaboration. Litigation can be costly and time-consuming. It involves appearing in court and battling out the conditions and terms of your divorce. In a collaborative divorce, you and your spouse...

3/23/23

3 self-care tips to help you be a good parent during divorce

Divorce is difficult for the entire family. Any parent’s first concern is how to protect and provide for their kids. Unfortunately, in doing so, you may disregard your own needs. Even though it might seem like you don’t have the time or energy, prioritizing your needs and practicing self-care can help you be there for the kids more effectively. Be sure to make some time for yourself You might feel that you’re busier than ever...

3/4/23

Tips to keep legal costs down during divorce

The average divorce or marital dissolution costs thousands of dollars. You and your spouse may have to pay for your separate legal representation and for court costs. You will also incur certain losses as you divide your property with one another. While you are undergoing major changes in your personal relationships, you will likely want to preserve your financial stability as much as you possibly can. Thankfully, there are a few tips you can follow...

1/12/23

Challenges parents face after divorce

Divorce might end the conflict between the parents in Pennsylvania, but the challenges do not end for them. Co-parenting and life as a newly-singled person both bring various challenges, even if the parent stays silent about their struggle. Concern for the kids One of the biggest issues parents face after a divorce is how to help their children cope and adapt. The parents themselves might often be struggling with the Struggling to adapt to...

1/4/23

The child-centered divorce

Divorce in Pennsylvania can be a difficult and emotional experience, especially when children are involved. While it can be tempting to focus on your own needs and desires during this time, it is important to consider the well-being and needs of your children. A child-centered divorce is one in which the children’s needs and best interests are a top priority. Ways to approach a child-centered divorce Deciding to divorce can be the most challenging decision...