Blog: Divorce

1/29/24

You can avoid making your divorce an adverse childhood experience

Are you considering mediation or collaborative divorce to end your marriage rather than a litigated divorce to help begin to build a good co-parenting relationship and minimize the negative effects of divorce on your child? You probably don’t need any more evidence that a long, combative, litigated divorce is generally bad for children. Here’s something, however, that you may not know. Mental health professionals list parental divorce as one of the “ What are ACEs?...

1/12/24

Tips for telling children about divorce

It’s important to So what should you keep in mind for this conversation? Below are a few tips that will help. Gather the whole family If you and your spouse tell the children together, you’re able to present a united front. You can show the children that both of their parents will still be involved in their lives. On top of that, you ensure that all of your children find out at the same...

11/30/23

Navigate tough divorce discussions with these communication tips

Are you one of the many who expect you never need talk to your spouse again once you decide to get a divorce? Many believe this, but chances are, you cannot end your marriage without continuing to communicate. If you do not participate in negotiations, you and your spouse may not be able to agree on critical issues like child custody and marital property. The court will step in and decide these matters without you,...

11/25/23

What is conscious uncoupling?

The phrase “conscious uncoupling” hit the news way back in 2014 – and it’s gradually started to change the way that a lot of couples approach divorce. In short, conscious uncoupling is all about reframing your marriage and divorce as a journey and a growth process and realizing that it’s okay that things didn’t work out. In the process, it’s often possible for couples to find closure together and transition from partners to friends –...

10/20/23

5 ways to prioritize your child’s needs during a divorce

Divorce affects almost every aspect of your life, making it easy to lose sight of what’s important. Amid the chaos, there is one crucial part that you must prioritize: your children. Like you, they may also be grappling with grief, sadness and confusion. As a parent, your support during such a difficult time can shape how your children adapt and grow from the experience. The effects of divorce on children They may not always show...

10/17/23

The basic estate documents you’ll need after divorce

As a busy adult, it’s surprisingly easy to overlook important matters, especially when dealing with divorce’s emotional and logistical challenges. However, safeguarding your financial security and protecting your loved ones should be top priorities. That’s where primary estate documents come into play. Do you know the essential estate documents you should have in place, especially if you’ve recently divorced? The basic estate documents Following a divorce Medical and Financial Powers of Attorney allow you to...

9/5/23

Are you about to tell your children about your divorce?

Breaking the news of your divorce to your children can be a difficult and emotional conversation. As you navigate this delicate situation, it’s important to approach it with sensitivity and care to minimize the impact on their well-being. At this moment, your children may already have some idea that you’re getting a divorce, which can make this conversation even more challenging. However, it would be best to have Plan and talk to them together Starting...

8/7/23

5 tips for families experiencing high-conflict divorces

The inherent nature of divorce is tearing apart what you hoped was an enduring bond. This breakage only means that you and your ex-spouse cannot be completely immune from some degree of disagreement. But in some cases, conflicts reach extremely antagonistic levels. If not managed properly, it may have a detrimental impact on your family’s well-being. How to reduce conflicts Per Pennsylvania’s collaborative laws, you have the option to sign a participation agreement to ...

5/10/23

How do I prepare to talk to my spouse about divorce?

It is never easy to break up with someone you promised to love, especially if you legally vowed to love and cherish them forever. When you finally decide to bring up divorce, you should do so in a way that will increase the chances for collaboration. Litigation can be costly and time-consuming. It involves appearing in court and battling out the conditions and terms of your divorce. In a collaborative divorce, you and your spouse...

3/23/23

3 self-care tips to help you be a good parent during divorce

Divorce is difficult for the entire family. Any parent’s first concern is how to protect and provide for their kids. Unfortunately, in doing so, you may disregard your own needs. Even though it might seem like you don’t have the time or energy, prioritizing your needs and practicing self-care can help you be there for the kids more effectively. Be sure to make some time for yourself You might feel that you’re busier than ever...