Blog: Divorce

6/3/25

Dividing Debt in a Pennsylvania Divorce: Who’s Responsible for What?

At From shared credit cards to student loans and car payments, financial obligations don’t go away when a marriage ends. Understanding how dividing debt in a Pennsylvania Looking at Divorce Through a Financial Lens When two people separate, untangling their financial lives can feel overwhelming. One of the first questions we help our clients answer is: In Pennsylvania, this falls under the legal process of Fair doesn’t always mean equal. What...

5/14/25

The Difficult but Necessary Conversation: Suggestive Ways to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce Without Causing Fear

Divorce can be one of the most challenging moments in a family’s life – especially when children are involved. As a parent, finding the right words to explain these changes can feel overwhelming. Many parents who turn to our firm share the same concern: how to shield their children from fear and uncertainty during If you're wondering how to start this conversation with your child, you are not alone. Here’s how to approach...

3/4/25

Divorce mediation vs. arbitration: Which one is right for you?

Mediation and arbitration are two types of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods. Both offer alternatives to traditional court litigation and are far less adversarial than regular divorce. While there are a lot of similarities between divorce mediation and arbitration, there are still some distinctions you should consider. Here is a breakdown of their differences and similarities. What are the differences between arbitration and mediation? Mediation and arbitration Arbitration: Mediation: Aside from how these...

2/4/25

Divorce without destruction: 3 options for amicable separations

Divorce proceedings have the potential to be absolutely devastating. Divorcing individuals often go through significant emotional, social and financial upheaval. If they have children with one another, the divorce can also be harmful for them. Children often have a hard time adjusting to shared custody and dealing with the emotions that arise when their parents divorce. There are certain ways for parents to approach the divorce process that may limit the harm caused to their...

1/7/25

Your January divorce can be collaborative

Suppose you’re contemplating a January, you’re not alone; January is often referred to as Divorce Month. The first month of the year sees a significant uptick in couples filing for divorce. For many, the decision comes after months of deliberation over the previous year. Since the start of a new year symbolizes fresh beginnings, many couples file for divorce in January. While the idea of divorce might seem daunting, Why January? If you’re like...

11/6/24

How do you tell your spouse you want a divorce?

Deciding to end a marriage is never easy. Once you have made this difficult decision, the next challenge is communicating it to your spouse. This conversation may be emotional and complicated, but approaching it respectfully and clearly can make a significant difference. Below are tips you may consider to navigate this challenging discussion. Preparing for the conversation Before Reflect on your decision It is essential to ensure you are sure about wanting a divorce...

10/24/24

Balancing expert advice and parental instincts in divorce

As a parent going through a divorce, you want to ensure that your child’s best interests are at the forefront of your every decision. This complex and emotional transition often demands expert guidance to safeguard your child’s well-being. Professionals like psychologists, child development specialists, and mediators provide valuable expertise. However, this flood of opinions and advice can quickly become overwhelming. Expert insights can offer a wealth of knowledge, enabling you to make well-informed choices that...

10/19/24

How you can make your divorce less stressful for your kids

Even when a divorce is amicable, it can still be a challenging experience for children because it tends to upend their “everyday.” Most children grapple with confusion, fear and sadness as their sense of family stability shifts. Thankfully, as a parent, there are steps you can take to Communicate openly and honestly Naturally, when you’re divorcing, you instinctively want to protect your children from experiencing the pain of your separation. It can be tempting...

10/10/24

How can you communicate effectively with your ex-spouse after your divorce?

Communicating with your ex-spouse after your divorce may seem daunting. However, it may be necessary, especially if you have children. Effective communication with your ex-spouse is crucial for successful co-parenting. Maintaining a respectful and collaborative approach may allow you to create a positive environment for your children. It could reduce stress for all parties involved. Why clear communication is important Establishing Setting boundaries You may want to define appropriate topics and methods of communication...

8/20/24

Can mediation still work in high-conflict divorces?

When you face a high-conflict divorce, it can be easy to lose hope for a collaborative, less contentious process. After all, if you and your spouse struggled to see eye-to-eye during your marriage, how can you find common ground when you finally untangle the intricacies of your shared finances? Yet, even in such challenging situations where emotions run high and compromise feels out of reach, Mapping out your priorities Before kickstarting your divorce process...