Blog: Divorce

12/30/21

Is it really beneficial to have an amicable divorce?

Sadly, not every marriage is built to last the distance. Obtaining a divorce can be a difficult decision that significantly impacts the lives of both spouses. Furthermore, when children are involved, parents have to carefully consider the well-being of their offspring. Many divorces take on an adversarial form, with both parties engaging in a winner takes all scenario. However, in reality, there are no winners in a high-conflict divorce. Lengthy disputes only result in heightened...

12/27/21

Getting over ‘divorce grief’

Whether you initiated your divorce or your spouse did, it is natural to feel emotional about the end of your marriage. The loss of such an intimate relationship, even one that was flawed beyond fixing, can feel like a kind of death. Just like we grieve the death of a loved one (even if our relationship with that person was not the best), we might go through a similar experience over getting divorced. Five tips...

12/17/21

How can my divorce affect my children?

In a perfect world, we fall in love, have children and live happily ever after. While many spouses maintain long and loving relationships and divorce rates have fallen over the past decade, divorce remains a constant in our society. If you have children, you want the process to be as painless as possible for their (and your) sake. Research shows parents who take a graceful approach to divorce may greatly reduce the negative impacts on...

12/16/21

Social media mistakes are costly in divorce

The ubiquitous presence and use of social media have brought many benefits to people wanting to stay connected with friends, relatives and acquaintances. Sometimes, people may overshare mundane and irrelevant things, too. But that is expected. But what happens when a rift surfaces in a ere? How do you deal with this on social media? Of course, there is discontent with a disconnect, especially when a couple divorces. In such cases, you must observe civil...

12/10/21

Tips for communicating with your ex during divorce

The process of divorce is hard by itself. Still, certain things can make it even more stressful, such as fighting every time you talk or meet with your ex. If this is happening to you, you must know there are three ways to make the situation much better. Use a mediator A mediator is a neutral third party that can help you and your ex reach common ground regarding the terms of your divorce. With...

11/10/21

4 reasons to delay your divorce until January

The year 2021 is soon coming to an end, and as 2022 approaches, you may be wondering if divorcing your spouse before New Year’s is the best way to start over. However, starting your divorce proceedings before the end of the year might not only be extremely stressful, but it also may be financially inconvenient. Timing always matters, so before you make such a big decision you must know about the four reasons why it...

11/5/21

What do I do if my spouse won’t agree to a divorce?

You have reached the painstaking decision that your marriage no longer works, and you want a divorce. But after discussing your wishes with your spouse, they don’t agree. While this can be an extremely emotional conversation, it’s more unusual that both spouses reach the same conclusion at the same time. However, most come to accept it knowing that one person can’t make a marriage succeed. No-fault and fault-based dissolutions of marriage Pennsylvania allows spouses to...

11/4/21

Preparing for the Holiday Season Amid Divorce

The holiday season is known for peace, joy and togetherness. When you’re entering your first holiday season amid a divorce though, it can be hard to keep those themes at the forefront of your mind. To help you be as prepared as possible, here are some tips to follow during this time of year. Have a custody arrangement One of the many Mix up traditions While family traditions are great, so is mixing things...

11/1/21

What will happen to my pets after my divorce?

Most of us love our pets as if they were our children. So, in a divorce, the thought splitting up from them can feel heart-wrenching. In today’s divorces, may spouses have to confront the possibility of shared pet custody – and the answers do not come easily. How does Pennsylvania handle pet custody? Pennsylvania courts do not grant pets the same rights as children. Instead, the court considers them personal property. With that said, many...

10/13/21

How to break the news about your divorce to family and friends

The decision to get divorced is hard. You may already feel overwhelmed with your own emotions to deal with your friends’ and family members’ inquiries. However, you will have to tell them about it eventually. It may be nerve-wracking to think about how they will react to the news, but you can take control of the situation by knowing what and how to say it. That way, you can ensure you’ll communicate what you want...