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6/3/25

Dividing Debt in a Pennsylvania Divorce: Who’s Responsible for What?

At From shared credit cards to student loans and car payments, financial obligations don’t go away when a marriage ends. Understanding how dividing debt in a Pennsylvania Looking at Divorce Through a Financial Lens When two people separate, untangling their financial lives can feel overwhelming. One of the first questions we help our clients answer is: In Pennsylvania, this falls under the legal process of Fair doesn’t always mean equal. What...

5/14/25

The Difficult but Necessary Conversation: Suggestive Ways to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce Without Causing Fear

Divorce can be one of the most challenging moments in a family’s life – especially when children are involved. As a parent, finding the right words to explain these changes can feel overwhelming. Many parents who turn to our firm share the same concern: how to shield their children from fear and uncertainty during If you're wondering how to start this conversation with your child, you are not alone. Here’s how to approach...

4/16/25

Understanding the Role of Arbitration in Family Law: A Faster Path to Divorce in Pennsylvania

Divorce isn’t just a legal process – it’s an emotional journey. And when the road to resolution drags on for months or even years, it can take a serious toll on your well-being, your finances, and your family. If you’re hoping for a more efficient and private way to move forward, In Pennsylvania, more couples are turning to arbitration to resolve their At the What Is Arbitration in Family Law? Through ...

4/6/25

3 Parenting Issues That Can Easily Cause Co-Parenting Conflict

The intense emotions that are inspired by a failed romantic relationship or marriage can make it difficult to cooperate with one's ex. Even when parents set their own feelings aside and focus on their children, they may find themselves disagreeing on key issues. Here are three common issues that can easily trigger conflict in co-parenting relationships: 1. Discipline and Parenting Styles Different parenting styles can lead to significant disagreements. One parent might be more lenient,...

4/4/25

Collaborative Divorce: What to Ask When Drafting Your Settlement

Ending a marriage is never an easy process. However, there are ways to make it less stressful and expensive. In To achieve a successful collaborative divorce, it's crucial to ask the right questions when drafting your settlement agreement. Here are key considerations to discuss: 1. Division of Assets and Debts How will marital property and debts be equitably divided? Have all assets, including retirement accounts, real estate, and personal property, been fully disclosed and...

3/13/25

Co-Parenting in Pennsylvania: Creating a Healthy Balance for Children

At the This blog serves as a comprehensive guide to co-parenting in Pennsylvania, helping parents – both mothers and The Best Interests of the Child: A Shared Goal In Pennsylvania, family courts prioritize the Instead of approaching custody as a battle, parents can view it as an opportunity to restructure their family dynamic in a way that allows their children to receive the best from both parents. The The emotional bond...

3/4/25

Divorce mediation vs. arbitration: Which one is right for you?

Mediation and arbitration are two types of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods. Both offer alternatives to traditional court litigation and are far less adversarial than regular divorce. While there are a lot of similarities between divorce mediation and arbitration, there are still some distinctions you should consider. Here is a breakdown of their differences and similarities. What are the differences between arbitration and mediation? Mediation and arbitration Arbitration: Mediation: Aside from how these...

3/1/25

How should you introduce new partners in co-parenting situations?

Meeting a new partner marks a big step in life after divorce, but it needs extra care when kids are involved. As a parent in Pennsylvania, you’ll want to consider how this change affects your children and your co-parenting setup. Let’s look at innovative ways to handle this sensitive transition. When is the right time to make introductions? Most family experts say to wait until your new relationship is solid and stable. A good rule...

2/14/25

Can I claim more than 50% of marital property?

You have likely heard the saying, “It takes two to tango,” and in many ways, the same applies to building a life together in marriage. But when your partnership ends, the question of who deserves what can be complex. Is divorce always a matter of simply dividing everything in half? Property division in Pennsylvania is not a precise 50/50 split Courts in the Keystone State aim for equitable distribution of marital property. This means ...

2/4/25

Divorce without destruction: 3 options for amicable separations

Divorce proceedings have the potential to be absolutely devastating. Divorcing individuals often go through significant emotional, social and financial upheaval. If they have children with one another, the divorce can also be harmful for them. Children often have a hard time adjusting to shared custody and dealing with the emotions that arise when their parents divorce. There are certain ways for parents to approach the divorce process that may limit the harm caused to their...