But there are two reasons why parents shouldn’t think this way and why it can actually be problematic.
First and foremost, some studies have found that parents who stay together are actually creating a worse environment for their children. This is true if the parents are involved in a high level of conflict. This conflict could be why they’re considering a divorce, and staying together forces the children to live in a high-conflict home. This may be more detrimental to their development than if their parents split up.
The second thing to remember is that the trouble children have with divorce usually happens right away. It is a major change in their life, and it takes time for them to adjust. But these studies also find that the majority of children do adjust to divorce. It does not have a long-term negative impact on their development or their life. Instead of avoiding divorce, parents should focus on what they can do to make it go smoothly for their kids.
Are you thinking about splitting up this year? If so, take the time to look into all of your legal options.
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