Warmer weather has finally arrived in Pennsylvania, meaning the school year’s end isn’t too far off.
Summer brings a more relaxed schedule and plenty of outdoor activities. But it also has some unique co-parenting challenges.
Communication is important as routines change
One thing that doesn’t change as you transition out of the school year is the need for open communication. You will want to start the conversation early regarding vacation plans, childcare arrangements and any changes to your regular work schedule.
Examples of important details to work out include any activities or summer camps in which the kids will be participating. Shared calendars or apps can ensure that everyone can access travel itineraries and drop-off/pick-up times. This can help minimize misunderstandings.
Summer often means a more relaxed routine. A little extra flexibility is required with vacations, day trips and sleepovers with friends. Both parents need to work together to map out a schedule that permits each one to have plenty of parenting time. It also helps to have some consistency between households to provide kids with stability. Limit screen time and assign any additional chores based on each child’s age and ability.
Don’t let conflict mar your children’s summer
Summer break is one of the best things about being a kid. There are so many fun memories to create that you don’t want to ruin it by being in constant conflict with your co-parent. Both parties must keep their children’s well-being at the heart of every decision.
It’s also important to keep disagreements away from the children. They deserve to enjoy their summer vacation. By arguing in front of them or venting to them about their other parent, the child ends up feeling caught in the middle.
Co-parenting doesn’t have to be stressful. You and your former partner can work together so that your children can focus on making the most of their summer. If you need to codify some changes to your parenting plan, it helps to have sound legal guidance to protect your parental rights.
